Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Good Manners




Imam Ibn ul-Qayyim (rahimahullah) said: “How many people have caused misery to their own children, the apples of their eyes, in this world and in the Hereafter, by neglecting them, not disciplining them, encouraging them to follow their whims and desires, thinking that they were honouring them when they were in fact humiliating them, that they were being merciful to them when in fact they were wronging them.
They have not benefited from having a child, and they have made the child lose his share in this world and in the Hereafter.
If you think about the corruption of children you will see that in most cases it is because of the parents.” [Tuhfat al-Mawlood, p. 146]
May Allah subhanhu wa Ta'ala make us the righteous parents and give us the tawfeeq of giving the righteous upbringing of our children which will beautify their deen, duniya and akhirah

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