It takes 2 (man a woman) for a Marriage to work and be fruitful:)

It takes 2 (man a woman) for a Marriage to work and be fruitful:)

The Messenger of ALLAH ( SalAllahu Alayhi WaSalam ) commanded us to get married and he strongly prohibited us from celibacy and he said:

"Marry the Loving and fruitful, for I desire the most followers from the Prophets on the Day of Resurrection. "

[Musnad Ahmad 12202]

"The Messenger of ALLAH ( SalAllahu Alayhi WaSalam ) said:

"O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity. And whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for it will be a shield for him. "

[Sahih Muslim; Hadith number 3400 Bookmark 1]

Marriage is an affair between a man and a woman. As we all know it takes 2 to make things in this business or affairs alright.

In this case the man must do what the wife wants and the wife must do what the husband wants. And in times of collisions compromise must be consulted or the lady must soften her stands in order to build a peaceful house. Men by their natures are too arrogant, rude and uncompromising sometime. So, as a woman if you want to shout when your husband is shouting, you are then making a big mistake.

As a Muslimah even in other Religion, a woman is always advised to be submissive and speak with low tones, by doing so you can easily win the man's heart and control him like your child. But if he shout and you shout, then I personally I don't allow it in my house.

Quran chapter 4:34 says:
"Men are stronger, are given supremacy over the women for what ALLAH has favored each of you upon the other.

My dear sister some men are nonsense intolerant and can be too arrogant. To control them you must master the art of silence when they are angry. You must the art of saying 'oh dear I don't mean it or I don't mean to upset you so forgive me.' With languages like this, I think you can put a chain in the neck of your husband and drive him around like your pet grin emoticon because men always want to be listened to so, just deceive him with silence or say sorry dear.

Women too are always childish, so as a men must also know how to deceive them with chocolates and candies smile emoticon
Yes they want to be pampered we must do it for them. But not too arrogant and acerbic tongue women.

It takes two to make marriage beautiful but the load is on you my sisters. Master the art of silence to soften and coil the rage and anger of your husband back into his shell.

"And among His signs is this: that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest and peace of mind in them, and He ordained between you Love and Mercy. Certainly, therein indeed are signs for people who reflect. "
[Surah Al Rum 30:21]