Sunday, April 5, 2015

Reminder to all the Muslim Couple.




Assalamu alaikum warahmatullaahi wabarakaatuhu!
Reminder to all the Muslim Couple.
For the first time after 18 years of marriage, she prepared the worst dinner for her husband. The vegetables were over cooked, meat was burned and salad was too salty.
At the dinner table, her husband kept silent while he was eating.
After that, when she was in kitchen washing dishes he came to her, smile at her and kissed her on her forehead
“Why is this kiss for?” she asked him not believing what he did.
“Tonight your cooking reminded me of your cooking in the first days of our marriage! it reminded me of your cooking as a new bride, so I wanted to treat you as if you are a new bride”
This is the good righteous husband who turn the mistakes of his wife to positive sides in their life together, because the best Muslim man is the one who is best to his wife and should make her feel that she is so special to him.
Abu Hurairah narrated that Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa'Sallam) said: "The believers who show the most perfect faith are those who have the best disposition and the best of you are those who are best to their wives." [Tirmidhi]
Subhan-Allah By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.
She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you.
When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world.
The best description that I personally have ever read describing the closeness of the spouses to each other is the Qur'anic verse which says:
"They are your garments and you are their garments"
(Surah Al Baqarah 2:187).
Remember the Last Sermon Of our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) to take of the Women or wives.
" O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah’s trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste."
May Allah swt keep all the Muslim couples be in peace, blessed family life and be a coolness of their eyes to their spouses...
Allahumma aameen summa aameen ...........

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